Attention

I've noticed over the past few weeks amongst many females that a lot of us settle so we don't have to be alone. This isn't a planned idea, it just happens. Many times we know that a dude isn't right for us and doesn't share the same views as us but some attention is better than none at all. This attention can range from texting or having sex. But the problem begins when we forget that we are just using them for that purpose and become emotionally attached. As women it is not as easy for us as men not to get emotionally connected. The few of us that can't get emotionally connected are usually the ones that are holding on to some hurt of their past. So we start out with a plan but after awhile we feel that he's really a sweet guy and I want more than just a text. The PROBLEM begins. While we were wasting time with someone who will never give us more we missed out on the male that only wanted to give us more. The objective of this entry is for us as woman to examine ourselves and realize that we are worthy of way more than we can think. In order to receive your Prince there are times when you are going to be alone. Don't become so consumed with having some attention that you forget about your greatest attention; YOURSELF. It won't be easy but the award is plentiful.

Lauren